CONFIDENCE: Confidence Training - Become An Alpha Male by Mastering Your Confidence, Self Esteem & Charisma (Social anxiety, Confidence building, Confident, ... for men, Attract women, Confidence men) by Moore Robert

Author:Moore, Robert [Moore, Robert]
Language: eng
Format: epub, azw
Published: 2015-11-03T16:00:00+00:00

CHAPTER 4: SELF-CONFIDENCE STRATEGY – POSITIVITY

“Positive anything is better than negative nothing.” – Elbert Hubbard

Positivity is looking at life or the things that happen in life through a positive point of view. For example, there are 3 ways of looking at an event such as the bus you’re riding hurriedly to work busting a tire. The delay causes you to be late and you can either look at it as positive, negative or neutral. Positive because you choose to believe that it could’ve been worse like the bus was raptured by an evil UFO along the way or it could’ve ended up being swallowed by a sinkhole the size of California! You can take it negatively and rant all the way to work that you missed an important meeting and because of that you can get fired, fail to find new work and end up homeless and living in a shelter. Neutrally, you just don’t care!

Now let’s take this example in terms of being a man – an alpha man! Let’s say you spot a really hot chick at the other end of the bar. You catch her glancing at you several times now. So what are you gonna do, boy? Are you just gonna stay where you are and get drunk or hop over to that chick, engage her in interesting conversation and try to get her number and who knows – score? What? You’ll just stay and get drunk? What the hell?

Let me guess, you’re concerned more with the possibility that she’ll ignore you – reject! Now based on the 3 ways we talked about earlier, here’s how you can handle that risk:

-Negatively: You’ll come back to your seat with your tail in between your legs (wait, you already have one in between both legs!), sulk about what happened and conclude you’re just not worth hot women’s attention, much less their bodies. You condemn yourself to a life of solitude and potentially, celibacy. Good Lord help you!

-Neutrally: You just brush it off, go back to your seat and get drunk.

-Positively: You go back to your seat and like Thomas Edison, consider that setback as progress, i.e., you learned another way to unsuccessfully interact with hot, random women in a bar. The more unsuccessful ways you discover, the less mistakes you’ll probably commit next time and the higher your chances of finally getting it right!

Positivity shouldn’t be confused with the Pollyanna syndrome, wherein you simply think nothing’s wrong in the world and that everything’s A-Okay, even when things are falling apart! Positivity is several notches higher in the sense that you still acknowledge the negative thing that happened but instead of dwelling on what went wrong that you couldn’t change, you dwell on the possible or actual good things that can come out of such events.

Going back to the girl in the bar example, if she did turn down your attempt to get into a conversation or ask for her digits, you exercise positivity by acknowledging that you were

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